By Jamie Gumbrecht, CNN
(CNN) – As Quanesha Wallace remembers, it was around this time last year when the idea first came up at Wilcox County High School. It was nothing big, just chatter about prom, school, what comes next, what they'd change.
If things were different, someone said, we'd all go to the same prom.
For as long as anyone could remember, students in their South Georgia community went to separate proms, and homecoming dances, too. White students from Wilcox County attend one. Black students, another. They’re private events organized by parents and students, not the school district. Schools have long been desegregated, but in Wilcox County, the dances never changed.
The friends all agreed they'd go to an integrated prom, Quanesha said, and when they asked, others said, "Yeah, I'd go, too."
"We are all friends," Quanesha's friend, Stephanie Sinnot, told CNN affiliate WGXA-TV in Macon, Georgia. "That's just kind of not right that we can't go to prom together."
So now it's April, and prom is coming up, and these black and white friends, longtime pals who go to classes together and play sports together and hang out together, are going to prom together, too. For the first time, students are organizing an integrated dance, one that welcomes any of Wilcox County High's 400 students.
"This is going to be the biggest prom ever to come through Wilcox County," said Quanesha, one of the event's organizers.
The theme will be "Masquerade Ball in Paris." There will be an Eiffel Tower and Mardi Gras-style masks, dancing, flowers, catered food and a clubhouse in nearby Cordele. They're expecting gowns, ties, manicures, up-dos, sparkle. Quanesha has a date, although she hasn't decided on a dress.
"If you want to get fancy, get fancy," said Quanesha, 18. "If you don't, that's fine."
Attendees will vote on a king and queen but also cutest couple, best smile, best dressed. They'll do a recognition ceremony for a classmate who died. They'll start a new prom tradition: a unity toast.
By Thursday afternoon, about 50 tickets had sold for the integrated prom. They're aiming for 100. They're not sure they'll make it.
Not everybody is excited about the idea. Posters for the integrated prom were torn off the walls of the high school. Students who usually plan dances didn't get involved with this one. Nothing was different about this year's homecoming dances: Quanesha, the queen, is black. The king, white. She thought she might get an invite to the other prom, but they went to separate dances, and appear in separate yearbook photos, she said.
In a statement posted on the school district’s website Thursday, Wilcox County Superintendent Steve Smith stressed the segregated proms aren’t organized by the school.
When students approached him about hosting an integrated prom, Smith wrote, he and the county’s board of education “not only applauded their idea, but we also passed a resolution advocating that all activities involving our students be inclusive and nondiscriminatory.
“I fully support these ladies, and I consider it an embarrassment to our schools and community that these events have portrayed us as bigoted in any way.”
The statement was no longer on the schools' website Thursday night, but a new statement posted by Friday morning said the high school's principal "will place the 2014 Prom on its agenda for its next meeting."
Smith did not return CNN's phone calls or e-mails.
Wilcox County is not the only place with a racially segregated prom, nor is it the only one that's attracted widespread attention in recent years. In the 2009 documentary “Prom Night in Mississippi,” director Paul Saltzman followed the preparations for the first integrated prom in Charleston, Mississippi. Actor Morgan Freeman, a native of the area, offered in 1997 to cover the cost if the school board would hold an integrated prom, but the offer wasn’t accepted till 2008.
Students and parents say it's hard to spark conversation that breaks what's now seen as tradition.
"I've lived here all my life. Nobody pushed the issue. This year, these children – we didn’t have any idea it was going to go as it did," Quanesha's mother, Linda Wallace, said Thursday. "Before we knew it, it was like a wildfire."
Indeed, Wilcox County's integrated prom has gotten a lot of attention this week. Schools in the county of about 9,000 residents are on spring break, but while classes were out, the prom story appeared on the local news, and the story spread. They'd been raising money for the prom all year, and some donations helped, but they've picked up a lot in the last few days. The prom's Facebook page drew thousands of fans since it was set up Wednesday.
Most of the comments are positive. "Your efforts will open the eyes of many. I applaud your courage and hopefulness. Continue your fight for change this year and every year, not just in your school but throughout your community. It just takes one person to change the world," one person wrote.
"You are civil rights leaders of 2013!" another wrote. "I am so encouraged by what you are doing. I believe that your generation has the power to make things better. Keep going and never give up."
Still, Quanesha is a little nervous about returning to school Monday. A lot of parents and students support them, she said, but she knows some don't. Why else, after all these years, were they still holding dances that segregated white and black students?
"I’m all about sticking together, reasoning with each other," Quanesha said. "We have very strong-minded students at Wilcox County. I hope they’re there to back each other up."
The friends and organizers are trying to enjoy it. Soon, most of them will be graduating. Quanesha plans to go to college to study psychology. She said she's not going too far from home for now. She wants to make sure the prom keeps going, and she can come back to help encourage the underclassmen who will have to take it on next.
"I don't want to just leave them hanging. I know we're going to leave them a little money," Quanesha said.
"New tradition. Leave them a little something so it won't be so hard for them like it was hard for us."
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Thats so stupied to do seperated proms whats wrong with the parents and students these days to come up with with that irresponsible idea smh yeah IRRESPONSIBLE!!!
I thought I was reading Ripley's Believe or Not. In this day and age to hold two separate proms is preposterous.
Would somebody – please – just applaude these jung people for changing the tradition! The shame is on all the proms and dances held until last year. Everybody who organised and attended the separate events in the past has to be embarassed for the rest of their life that they did not have niether the vision nor the courage.
Get your priorities right!
How backwards some parts of the USA unfortunately are, in New Zealand we have been integrated with our native people the Maoris since the historic signing of the 1840 Treaty.
...are you kidding me? In the time I've spent in New Zealand, living in a district with nearly 0% white people in the neighbourhood I haven't seen any efforts made by the government to raise living quality or solving the drug & alcohol issue. Segregation though is another level of stupidity still beiing displayed by some parts of the U.S.
When you think about what Rosa Parks had to go through I am amazed this is going on in 2013. Disgusting!
Hard to believe this still goes on, what....40-50 years after the fact of integration in some of these areas. Well, regardless, I hope that the integrated prom is a success. Best of luck.
I have 4 children and in my home they have been taught that everyone is the same, and they are welcome to have friends over no matter their race. This fight has been ongoing and may never really be over, you cant change someones view points no matter how ignorant you find them to be! We are welcome to voice our opinions though and one I have recently heard still makes me wonder...She pointed out that it's always been "white v. black", but is that always just the way it is every single time or does it go both ways? She pointed out that they have BET and they do not have many "white" people in their movies and she doesnt allow her children to watch that channel because of this. She says she doesnt discriminate BUT she doesnt see why the finger is always pointed at us she feels that it obviously must go both ways?...She ask me a question that I had no answer to, what happened if 10 years ago we as the "whites" had our own channel something like BET, would people being calling discrimination? I had never realy thought of this until she pointed it out. Its really a touchy subject and nobdy will ever have all the answers but Im truly happy that these children will be able to finally experience the same education and events that my children will do and my question to this is why did it take until 2013 to do this? The school says they are not responsible so that means that the parents are raising them to have these viewpoints...is this really fair to the children? Why did the school let this continue for so long? I dont think we will ever have answers to any of these questions, despite the struggles throughout our history. Maybe today although most of us dont want to see it maybe more people than we thought still feel color is important...
What an incoherent, rambling post
This is shameful we should be beyond this! so sad
Most of these people have no idea what they are talking about. I have lived in Georgia my entire life, and the only time I have experienced any sort of racism was when some black guys yelled at me and called me a "white @ss Mother-effer" for talking to a black girl, and that girl went on to reprimand the guy. I also found it quite humorous that as I was reading this article and comments, there were white guys and black guys bro-hugging, and white and black girls hugging and talking right in front of me. The south is a very hospitable place, and race is only an issue that comes up when the media finds a story to make a big deal about. There is racism everywhere, and it's no worse in the south than anywhere else in the country.
It just seems lot of people in the north that I have talked to (not making a blanket statement) seem to have an elitist mindset that they are somehow superior to, or more intelligent than, anyone from the south, when that's not the case at all. Having that sort of mindset is a form of racism in its own right. Actually, I have some black friends that moved here from New York, and they have only had praise for the state because, in their own words, “people are so much nicer here than in NYC”.
Anyway, we really do live in a great country. Yeah, it has its faults, but those aren't going to be fixed by name-calling on news articles (from CNN no less) over the internet. If you really want to make a difference, take action. My class at GSU, one of the most diverse universities in the country, in the past few weeks has raised over $10,000 for charities ranging from helping breast cancer patients, schools and orphanages in Kenya, people suffering from cerebral palsy, feeding and helping homeless children, scholarships for low income Latino communities, and animal shelters, just to name a few. If you really want to see change, get out from behind your computer and do something about it.
Well while some of the things that you say are true but I have to disagree as a black person that was raised in the north and has lived in the south for a while. while there is racism everywhere, I would have to say, especially as black person, that it is way worse in the south compared to most of the north. I went to school in south GA and please believe that old JIM CROW sentiment is still alive in many small cities and towns.
However I do agree that many people of all colors can guilty of discrimination, lets not pretend that it occurs to equal extents. When your in ATL its totally different. your in a diverse city that is way more tolerant than many pockets of the more rural south. And again, I really want to stress that I do believe that all people can feel that affects of racial bigotry. but, if you were a person of color in the south and confronted with the daily and life long obstacles that come just because of your ethnicity you would have a TOTALLY different perspective!!! This town needs to step into the twenty first century its a damn shame!! WE ARE ALL A PART OF THE HUMAN RACE!! after al it is 2013!!! SMFH!!
I just want to say that I find the claims of people trying to project this idea that racism is long over and gone to be preposterous. Of course, if you come to the Black Mecca of Atlanta, then you'll find that the racism that's present will be less extreme simply because there are so many more black people than you'll find in the average setting. Also, you see the dynamic where the communities are completely separated. As a black girl in Atlanta, all my life I've only gone to school with black kids. My onle extensive encounters in my day to day life in Atlanta with anyone that wasn't black have been with two white kids. Yes, I admit; the two of them , in each case being the only white person on the room, exhibited no racist qualities. In the rurals where progress has been much slower, unfortunately racism is very real (speaking on simply the social level and not focusing on it in the work force and its effects) . These few stories that become sensations are not the outliers; rather they are one of many instances that just haven't gotten enough publicity to become an issue that attracts the attention of the public. I'm proud of what those kids are doing. It's a step. But consider this; that is an entire town. They have to fight the town to get an integrated prom off the ground...because many of those town members are racist, or see nothing wrong with the idea of the town being integrated Do you believe that this town and this town alone has developed in its own little bubble of isolation since the civil rights movement? This single town is the place in the country where all the racists and bigots have decided to live? Well what about Trevon Martin(R.I.P.) ; what about those 3 Black boys shot in Texas by some trashy men with nothing better to do than hate? What about the countless instances of police brutality? Or the targeting of Blacks and Latinos in the New York stop and frisks... Anyone who says that racism is long over and dead is in denial. They desperately need to wake up.
Thats wrong. As a black person living in the south my entire life I will be the first to tell you RACE IS AN ISSUE EVERYWHERE IN THE SOUTH. It does not matter where you go in the south there is still a since of I don't like you because you are black and I dont like you because you are white. Race plays a huge part. As a matter of fact my fiance' and I can not tell her family that we are engaged yet because I am black. ITS STILL AN ISSUE
What a shame its 2013!! I bet there are still more stories like this happening out there in the US and A...
This just goes to show you can change laws but you can't change people. That goes for BOTH sides people..
First i want to just say that this is ridiculous. Why even in this day and age we still look at color is beyond me. We call this place the "United" States and "the Land of the Free" yet so many of us still choose to be divided. We're all are born with the same capabilities and that includes change. Why continue to fight this current. There is no true justification for it. We are all Human at the end of the day. No Less No More.
These are privately organized events, the parents are making these decisions. As much as anyone black likes to admit, they can be as racist or worse than the whites, and I would bet a high dollar that it was the black side that had a bigger problem with it.
The fact that you felt the need to make such a comment shows your ignorance on this situation. Instead of rejoicing on finally coming together in 2013 "smh", we continue to point fingers on who we "believe" had more say (blacks)??? Do we know this for sure? Probbaly Not. Sad to know that in 2013, Current and previous generations still revolve around racisim. SMH
Brilliantly worded. Thank you Anicka.
The hell? How does his still exist in the modern day?
The sad part about this is that it's both sides of the isle that heve kept the segregation. There are still many of our elders who tell our youth not to trust someone who is caucasian; and vice versa. This must stop and I hope very soon. It has been almost 150 years passed since the American Civil War, (also the same amount of time since the 15th Ammendment was passed), 55 years since the Civil Rights Movement, and almost five years since we've had a president of color. We, as a nation, must address and weed out these areas to move forward and truly prgress past racism, no matter the color or lack thereof.
I am an idiot
yes you are!
This makes Georgia look amazing :)
Thats messed up! a segregated prom what the fudge! Jesus christ almighty!
Even though the school didn't organize or pay for the proms, I'm sure they still allowed students to hang posters about the proms and put photos from the proms in the yearbooks. They are as complicit in this activity as they would be if a student run neo-nazi group was allowed to put up posters about an off campus hate rally.
is this a joke? My word Yanks, please this is disgraceful
Thats How i feel.
ONLY IN THE SOUTH!!!! BIGOTRY LIVES ON.
Don't blame GA or the south for this one community!!!!!
Bigotry is strong in the north as well. This not only happens in the South but in the North as well. It's sad that you feel that the backbone of this country are bigots and racists. There's only a few that are still like that because of how they were raised.
You are right Seth!
I want to date you Seth!!!
Are you implying that the South is the backbone of our country? They (as a region) produce the least amount of wealth and take the most in federal government aid.
Can't believe this kind of thing is still going on.–It takes the students to change things. Good for them–
In the year 2013 not 17something this obnoxious type of behavior can still go on. after having so many black leaders and even a black president. these members of this blacking hating cult can still find place in this country to feed this garbage to their children and children children s. I so happy that these children is refusing to eat or drink this garbage support them all I congratulate you all kids for refusing to accept the garbage. Do not quit on unity. Parents is not always right and they do need to be corrected at times.
Racism disguised as "tradition" pretty sad this still occurs.
I had no idea this still occurred in this country.
No kidding. This is a fantastic example of how isolated and slow moving, small-town southern America is. These problems still exist nationally, but It's obvious things haven't moved a fraction on an inch in the South. It hasn't changed one bit in the last 50 years.
Wow – finally an integrated prom.
Maybe in another 100 years, they'll start integrating their churches.
Racism does not only happen in America people.
Racism is defined as – a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others.
Now with that in mind, everyone is a racists and everyone at one time in their life has been discriminated against. Unless you are Mother Theresa or Gandhi stop casting stones.
I'm an international student, and I can never figure out why there are all black sororities and fraternities and all white sororities and fraternities in a diverse university. Could someone please help me figure this out?
It is a cultural thing. We each have our own history and feel comfortable with our own race.
Yes Danie: I like your simple explanation. Sometimes it's not racism but simply a matter of being with those we feel most comfortable with because of a shared culture. "birds of a feather"..... as the saying goes.
There was a policy like this once called separate development, we each prefer to be with our own"kind" of people was the thinking. Most people know that policy by the Afrikaans translation which was called Apartheid.....
Convenient answer there. Careful, your true colors are bleeding through..
Not all frats or sororities are all black or all white; not to mention there are other races
really Georgia, this still exists?
YES it still happens, it is in the south! It will forever be plagued by ignorance and hatred, it is sad that now some towns see it as socially acceptable and above reproach to even challenge such a ridiculous “custom”. Mississippi ratified the 14th Amendment in 1995; umm about 224 years after the first state passed the amendment, that alone says something. Some people just refuse to let go of the hatred.
Not just in the south, foo.
The one thing that I don't see in the comments is a defense of people's right to be racists. There is no law against racism. It is a choice that people are free to make. There is nothing morally or inherently wrong with preferring to socialize within a particular group. It just makes your experience as a human less rich.
Cultural poverty is the free choice of the unenlightened. I think it is good to have a racially integrated choice. I would have no interest in making it the only choice. It is not a matter of right or wrong. Of course, I probably would have spiked the punch at all three. :-)
are you trolling here or what?
No, they're just not being idiotic.
You cannot control a person's right to speak their mind, if they are racist, get. over. it.
That's their choice and you insulting and degrading them is not going to change that.
For example, would you treat an atheist differently than a person of the same religion as you? I would hope not because if you did then that would be just as terrible as racism.
Bless your heart, you need to reconsider your question.
Huh? Yes being racist is morally wrong. No we can't control people's feelings, but hating or treating someone as inferior because they're a different race is definately immoral. I'm not sure if you were trying to say something along the lines of we shouldn't inhibid free speech, but that doesnt effect the morallity of the act.
Racism is hate based on nothing but appearances. Thats called evil.
I feel like this article came circa 1970. I am dumbfounded that this still exists. Way to go students. 'Bout time.
I can't believe that there are still segregrated Proms in 2013. What an F'd up country we live in.
It's not the country it's the counties stuck in the old segregated days.
Just don't play Rap and they will go away.
To which race or ethnic group are you referring? My white friends listen to more rap than any of my black friends. Dont be a fool.
I'm confused. Isn't segregation illegal? So why isn't the school board in jail?
The school board, county, and schools don't host the dances and other formals. They were all always thrown privately.
Our children mostly learn what we as parents teach them. And our children learn from what we say and do. The black and white parent in this area have gotten so use to the idea of a separate prom. Many of these black and white parents work together and sit and talk to each other everyday but still allow this ignorant tradition of a separate prom for their black and white children. Its about the parents holding on to an easy but ignorant tradition and not for the reason that none of them ever thought about having one prom. The thought has occurred of one prom but which parent was brave enuough to say it outloud. I am 40 something black woman that grew up in the South. Its kind of humorous to read some of the ideas about the way southern people live. Racism is not just something in the South. I am an US Army spouse that has live all over the US and around the world. And yes I have experience racism and I have experienced love and kindness from all races. I say a job well done to all the students that had the guts to speak out and want to unify. These young people realize the world is a much bigger place than the little town they live in and that one day they will go out into that world to live and for higher education. Yes Racism does exist and as long as we have different races, it will remain. Racism is wrong on all parts and we have to teach our children not to judge anyone based on their skin color or racial origin.
I'm curious about how this "segregation" works in modern America. If I'm mixed-race, can I choose which prom I want to go to? Or do the planning committees have a Genealogy Chair? And what if I'm Asian, or Hispanic, or a mix of any or all of these? Do I have to create my own dance if I want to go to prom? (I don't know about this particular county, but I grew up in Alabama, and I can say for certain that other places in the South have people of Asian and Hispanic heritage.) We're no longer governed by the "one-drop rule", and race isn't so black-and-white anymore.
I understand that change doesn't come easily, but I do think these students should be applauded for being brave enough to create something that reflects their own current reality. Blind adherence to the status quo isn't productive for a society, and it takes a strong person to recognize when something isn't working, and to speak up for a new way of doing things.
Yes, those past segregated proms were student-organized, and driven by whatever socioeconomic realities they perceived at the time. This group of students is now perceiving a different social structure among themselves, and they want to have a prom that reflects it. To me, that's what makes this whole thing so amazing–it's a much more hopeful sign for the South than any school board-forced integration or administration-organized prom. Here's hoping it's a smashing success!
Dont yall think its funny that a post about race is one of the stories where the comments are not disabled. They want this argument between races. The want the hate and to pin ppl agaist each other. Yall donr see that! Wake up! When they come down on us we will need each other.... ALL RACES NORTH AND SOUTH. They look at us like ants fighting each other and you ppl give in. So sad
Well, this is not surprising, I am from Maine 98% white state, I went to school in Pittsburgh, and there I saw first hand racism against blacks and Chinese this is 2004-2012, The further south you go it get worst, resturants still segregate seating based on skin color, the thing is people who are raised in the south are used to it, while a foreigner/flat lander such as myself more specifically from a isloated state picked up on it quickly and its very disturbing
Do you think racism exists from blacks to whites etc...???????? Or, can only whites be racist???
I'm from WV, and have never ate at a segregated restaurant, nor would I. I'm not sure what southern state you experienced this in, but believe me I would find it disturbing also.
Actually, no; I'm from Georgia, and there is no segregation in most places. It's only a few isolated places
Well said KT! AMEN TO THAT!!
So what prom do the asians and hispanics go to.
everyone down here in the south loves two things
leave us and our beliefs alone so sick of you Liberals and UN forces coming in and taking our beliefs, flag, and other crap you bunch of stupid morans
so sick of this crap
Oh, honey. I'm SO hoping you're a troll.
Mr. SMITH... Yeah you are right on the money, nailed it Bro.... its the F-ing Liberals but very few people realize as you do Joe that The UN is to blame, WOW how did you figure it out Joe... Blow (me) I hope you have lots of children cause we sure need you to pass on the STUPID GENE.....
forgot white people.
Jesus, guns & white people.
Don't worry Jesus still loves everybody; he's still holding out hope for Joe Smith. Very orginal name.
And the earth is 5000 years old... yea
I grew up in the South and have to take exception with your characterization of everyone in the South. I am not a follower of Jesus (seems like a nice guy) and I prefer edged weapons to guns with regard to home defense. I think they are safer for all concerned.
One of the consistent problems that I encountered growing up is the inertia of the unthinking majority in the South. They all "know" so many things that are true because "everybody" believes them. The south would be much better off if some of this "knowledge" was more consistently challenged. Sadly, the only response that this majority seems to have is violence as they seem a bit short on thoughts.
I would like to apologize for behalf of the South for this man; he does not represent us all
This report is tainted. Let me explain. I was raised in the midwest and came to Georgia 17 years ago. I hired the first non white in my company and thought as many of you do but have since learned a very import lesson.
Separation of black/white in the South is driven by BOTH sides ! I have 2 very close friends here that are black and if you talk with some of the relatives etc they very much want their children segregated from whites.
My point is the issues is equally as bad on both sides and unless you have seen and heard this first hand it's very hard to explain. Many families just don't want to change... it baffles me daily .
A very complex issue that CNN has tried to make look one sided and fairly simple. It's just not
Yes, both you and CNN miss the salient point that these students are moving past that self-segregation. They no longer see it as reflecting the reality of their world–and I hope you'll agree that this is a very good sign, and join me in cheering them on.
Wow, I just didn't think this still went on in the USA but I live in NZ. What amazing students to go with whats right and not what has always been done – it takes courage regardless of what the year is.
I can just imagine science class at this school
Yeah, well if you truly believed in Science you would know that there are many differences amongst the races besides skin color! YOUR ARE STUPID!
What? What a stupid thing to say. If he believed in science he would know that? What? Are you talking about how black people generally have tight curly hair, while white people generally dont? Good thing I believe in science and was given that amazing knowledge...
I'm white, late 30s, live in San Francisco, studied in the East Coast for post-grad.. I feel fortunate to have never been subjected to living around any form of racism and have lived most of my life in wonderfully diverse communities: black/white/asian/latino/euro..
What's hopeful to me is seeing that most of my friends and co-workers near my age group, whether they are in South Carolina, Georgia, Pennsylvania, Texas, or any other corner of the country, everyone is relatable, everyone shares the same disdain for any form of ignorance, especially racism.
Education and evolution is a beautiful thing, because I see these obsoleted ways of thinking trending out even more so among the 'millennials'. While it is naive to think racism/classism will go away, I am positive that the ignorance of bigotry in the United States will continue to dissipate.
It's actually quite funny when an outright racist or outspoken nationalist visits a city like San Francisco or New York and you can see in their eyes the self-realization of how narrow and limited the whole basis of their thinking has been
It's sad how pathetic the south is.
All they care about is hunting animals, fighting for the right to own guns, and hating blacks.
Kind of rude making it sound like all people in the south are like this. And what's wrong with wanting gun rights?
Chris, not all people in the South are like that. Many of us are intelligent, tolerant, kind, and vegetarian. Having lived and traveled across the United States and the world, I've realized that there is a terrible epidemic of ignorance everywhere. It's very unfair to make such broad and undeserving declarations about the South.
Appreciate the overall tone of your contribution.....but wondering what 'vegetarian' has to do with it? Do you have to be 'vegetarian' to be enlightened, suddenly? Wow, that's a whole new class of snobbery being opened up if that's the case.....
Actually, you will need to add "And hates whites" because this segregation is not one-sided. Those from the black side are just as racist as the ones on the white side. For those who have never experienced this, it may come as a surprise (like it did to me many years ago when I moved to the South after growing up never having a clue what racism was. It was never taught to me and our small town had multiple races who were friends.) The bottom line is that assumptions are stupid because many of these communities are segregated because both sides choose it. I applaud these kids for standing up for a new era!
You, sir. Have no idea what you are talking about! How many blacks do you know???? Do you not think that these blacks also prefer it this way???? I lived in NY most of my life and thought just as you do now, but I moved SC on a job and learned the hard way that most blacks hate whites. Deal with it!
Talk about being a racists. Your comment is without a doubt very racists and quite ignorant. I have plenty of black friends that love to hunt, love their guns, love Jesus, and hate a few whites and other nationalities too. Wow, I can't believe you actually thought your post was logical and proved a point. Well, it did prove a point...your ignorant comment is what breeds hate and racism in this country. Of course, my nasty reply to your post isn't very nice either. But, come on...really? You actually believe the crap you posted?
Only in the USA
Ha! Only any where in the world.
Are you KIDDING me????
In 2013 a school's prom is still SEGREGATED???!!!
No matter how bad the cities in the North get...ate least we are not still living in the 1800's.
The shame and ignorance of the South lives on...in every Confederate flag they display.
Proceed after reading this article and sit down. Please dump your ignorance on something that cares and do not make uneducated and moronic assumptions.
i hate black people
Thank you for your ignorance. Please tell me what good has come from it!
You hate yourself, too.
I'll bet you live an unhappy life with all that hatred stored inside you.
i'm sure white lover is walking with a stick with a hunchback!!
Thanks so much for you honesty. I just hope that you're as honest in your day to day life as you are posting comments. I'd rather deal with an upfront racist than a closet racist who has their white sheets or red suspenders hanging in their closet. I just hope you can keep up all of the racist energy for a lifetime, because we're not going anywhere. Better yet what's your address? I'd like to move next door.
I think its part of the human condition to form biases. What separates 'most' of Western society from what are quite frankly xenophobic societies and cultures that still exist in other parts of the world is the ability for most people to overcome biases, and tolerate & accept others. I struggle with it occasionally, but I recognize that most of North America is made up of dozens of cultural and racial influences. We don't have to like other people (regardless of whether they're our race or religion or not), but we'd damn well better start tolerating and accepting each other. There's no other way.
I am an equal opportunity hater....I hate stupid people the most. You fit right in with that group.
Did I wake up in 1950?? What the?.... it's 2013 how has this continued for so long? it's just ridiculous.
South Georgia makes NW Montana look positively cosmopolitan!
Guess they want the white kids to experience what it's like when gun fire breaks out at a party.
What a racist thing to say. You should be ashamed of yourself.
There will always be racists in this world. Just don't let it affect you. Only God can change these people, if they ask him for His help!!!
Just couldn't pass up the chance to throw out a stereotype huh? Its people like you that keep the division and racism alive and well.
Racism is being kept alive and well by BOTH white and black. Until you can admit that, you are just part of the problem.
Unfortunately, people do not understand that comments like that does not help the situation. We need to just pray for the people that are trying to change things, so God will give them strength to go the disstance and pray for the bigots (on both sides), that their eyes will be open to undertand that we are just one race, the "human" race.
Like all the black people who have been shooting people in the news lately causing a national controversy over controversy....oh wait, they where white.
I could say something equally ignorant like they don't have to go to parties to know about shootings, they can just go to school in the suburbs to learn that lesson. Either way, it's not appropriate.
Or the white kids want the black kids to know what it feels like when one of the black girls get drunk. Then instead, the poor black girl can have her picture posted all over the web while being gang raped by a bunch of white boys. Your comment is just wrong. Gun fire doesn't just happen at black parties.
Kudos to this school generation! Whatever has kept this going on for so long, this kids are standing against it and showing how they really want their future to look like! U.S. or not, the whole world is watching, looking out for this kind of examples to follow. We all want to see it happen! Not all are as courageous! Even in countries like U.S., where you do not get hard punishment for doing so, we know it's not that easy. I hope they keep this spirit through out their whole life, and keep inspiring others to follow.
Only in the South, How sad can this be! come on People We are in 2013 ! We all come from the same Creater Bleed the same Blood! How do We exspect to get over this Black And White thing if WQe let this keep going on! In the 60 I went to School in the North We all got along, in the 70 I went to School out West We got along ! Now I have lived in the South for 23+ years Now And I do not see anything chaning same old BS It is ashame!
Why is everyone so surprised? As much as I love this country, I have accepted the fact racism still exists. Yeah, slavery "legally" ended centuries ago. What didn't end was bigotry, racism and outright hatred. @Loken, I would love to see that happen. However, there are still those among us teaching their kids hatred towards people who don't look like them.
There are still places in Macon that look like the black areas in the show, "In The Heat of Night". There are still towns in GA where you do not go threw if you are of color. Ask Coke why they will not allow certain "people" to merchandise in certain towns....."It's for safety"
Likewise, there are certain areas white people can't go.
I am quite sure that the theory of devaluation as a defense mechanism will go over your head given the narrow examples you've cited to support your equally narrow beliefs. Speak only for yourself given your incredibly limited experience.
I can't believe this in this day and time. I live in the south, in Alabama at that, I am 53 years old and have always went to a intergrated school. How does this happen?? If both races were happy with it and I did say BOTH, I guess it could work but the kids seem like they want to combine the 2 and if that is the case, by all means combine them.
Jim Crow, alive, healthy and still living in the south! My cousins went through it in Fort Valley and I shook my head at it then and shed a tear for you now. We have failed you and I apologize for that. Thought we were moving past this but OH NO!!!! I will never subject my kids to the sins of the Old South, Never! So glad I got the hell out of there. Young people I am so proud of you, now go see the world and embrace new things and try not to judge. Then go back home and you will see the wrongs as clear as the beautiful moss that hangs from the trees. Then your rage will have a maturity that can NEVER be ignored.
You are crazy, you act like there are hangings on every tree, well excuse me but I have lived in Alabama all my life and I have never seen anything like what you are blabbing about. Quit giving other people in other states a bad idea about what goes on. Good grief, if that is the way you feel I am glad you are not here anymore.
Well no, not anymore thank GOD. Babling, you do not bable about what you have lived through and Georgia does a good enough job of casting a cloud over itself. As for Alabama, no comment. Thanks, I am glad I left as well. It has been an eye opening experience. Just hope others from the great south are able to do the same. That is the only way things will truly change. Congrats on your national championship by the way. Long live your precious south!
Fort Valley is the biggest black town in GA. So I'm not sure what you are talking about.
So why did it take so long to have a prom where all races were welcome? Never said anything degrading about Fort Valley and never will so what is your point? Black town or not, segregated proms were the norm for years. ALL of my cousins who lived there went to them? I thought it was crazy then and it is sad that it took so long to be changed. I am proud of them for finally getting it done but for the record, I did not say anything negative about Peach County. If I offended you I apologize.
No where in this article does it state they had to have separate proms. For some reason, each group continued to hold their own prom. This has nothing to do with the whites forcing blacks to go to another prom. This is a tradition that should have stopped many, many years ago, but did not. Both became comfortable with the status quo and therefore both should be held accountable for it continuing. I've lived in the south all my life, I've never felt I should move due to my color. My family has a rich and colorful history, I can't imagine living anywhere else. Racism happens anywhere and everywhere and not just to blacks.
II'm blown away that there is still segregation in the US in 2013! You have a black president for goodness sake! Well done to those kids trying to organise the integrated prom. Just because something has always been done a particular way, does not make it right.
I don't understand how people don't know there is segregation ... There are numerous communities that are represented by a certain race or color in America. Either way I do agree that segregation should be diminished in as many places possible but why get upset about this? They are moving in the direction of integration so praise them and their actions, don't condemn the situation for taking so long ...
Slavery is not around anymore; Black people are no longer to be seen inferior to Whites, so what happened after the Civil War, weren't they set free then?
I guess dey might hav been set free, bt u knoe doze ppl now trynna think blcks worth less thn white, which in reality we all da same jst ppl tripp now a dayz n think this damn jst nt rite, goverment shud du somethin in mah opinion, watchu think?
Dear "Pretending to appear as an uneducated person"... put down the crayon and pay attention in school.
UNBELIEVABLE ... I thought the days of things like this were over ??? What is wrong with Georgia ??? This is the year 2013 !!! I'm from Texas and my prom was 29 YEARS AGO – and we did NOT have a segregated prom even back then ... We all went to 1 prom together and it worked. SHAME on you, Macon Geogia and Wilcox HS ... and kudos to the STUDENTS who are trying to do the RIGHT THING and make a CHANGE to the MODERN WORLD !!!!!!
Since all of the proms were student sponsored, maybe you should take that up with the students and parents of the Class of 2012, and the Class of 2011, and the Class of 2010, and the Class of 2009, etc.....
HOORAY FOR THE KIDS !!!
I am shocked and appalled that segregated ANYTHING is still happening. People are people, get with the times!
Only in Georgia.
And alabama. And mississippi.
What freaking year is this!? Hey South, you lost the Civil War more than a century ago, evolve!
we are evolved. This is not normal for the south, why don't you investigate first before making blanket statements.
Telling someone from the south to evolve is racists if you want to get nasty about the whole thing. If you'd read the article, the decision to hold separate proms has been something that both the black and white community did. The white community did not force this on the blacks. This is a cultural and tradition by both communities that never changed. It takes both to fix it.
Isn't this suppsed to be the greatest country in the world? I wish Americans could actually see that they are no better than anyone else.
We MUST be better. All you foreigners keep posting on our news websites.
We post here because you shock us with your backwards ways while claiming to be the best nation on earth.
Grouping all of the people in the U.S. as one mind is wrong and doesn't say much for you either. Don't cast insults unless you are pure and perfect. Not all Americans believe this country is perfect or ideal to live in every day. We are not perfect, but then again neither is any one else. Many of us try to make our country hospitable to every one, no matter their color or religion. You also did not read the article or understand what was written. The choice to hold separate proms was made by both groups in the past. This was not a white versus black issue, but a tradition that needed to be fixed.
I don't think I'm better than anyone else. But I'm sure glad I wasn't born in Canada.
We are currently learning about black codes and we are shocked that segregation is still happening. We are more than disappointed, it is not fair that these girls cannot all celebrate their prom together.
I cannot believe that in 2013 we still have places that are segregated in the United States of America.
what a backward little town..Steve they didn't have a separated prom by choice...it was just the way it was...we had out first intergrated prom in West Memphis in 1983....
This story still here? It's been hanging around for like two weeks. They have separate proms by choice. No need to get all worked up about it.
Steve, is it a choice when you are not allowed to attend a White prom, or is it exclusion and pure racism?
It could be a choice, but people should separate proms only because of skin color,were your from, ect. Everyone is EQUAL!
I'm all for equality, but when you've got things like BET, JET magazine, black history month, black colleges, groups that exist to support only the black community, etc... you can't really talk. That sort of stuff is keeping racism alive just as much as some old white guy wearing a sheet. What would happen if someone started White Entertainment Television? Or Cloud magazine? Or White History month? NAAWP? It'd get called racist and screamed down, right?
This is funny all these stuff happens in the US but is hidden from the world, and then the US fights,for inequality even sanctions other countries where this is still taking place. Thanks GOD this isnt still ongoing in South Africa
I'm so glad they are standing up and doing this!! At the same time I'm in shock that segregation is still part of our lives in the 21st century. For God's sake, we have a black president...can we just get past a person's skin color and focus on what kind of ethics and exemplary lives people can pass on to the next generation. Let's rebuild America to be the best country in the world, one we can all be proud to call home!
Are we stuck on stupid? These children are the future of the USA. They have to establish a USA that they will live in and raise their own children. The success for any society is team work and equality.
and they should never wonder why things are not getting better. They don't have to look past themselves to find out why things are in the state that they are. The children are trying and they are trying to knock them back to the worst time in our history. Shameful, but it's reality
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